You Don’t Want or Need Christmas Gifts
How to tell your family you don’t want or need Christmas gifts is on the docket today. Every November, Mark and I email my four daughters to remind them that Mark and I no longer need or want Christmas gifts. I also called them to let them know we were okay with it.
I don’t want them to feel guilty that we aren’t getting a present under the tree. I’m updating this post because I feel this topic is more essential than ever.
I’ve spent the last few months decluttering my new home, and having more space has been refreshing. We’ve been in Northern Utah for a little over three years. Building this home was harder than we had anticipated with some delays and unexpected costs. Thankfully, we have our own space after three years of living with our daughter and son-in-law. They were great to put up with us during the construction phase, and we appreciate it. We’re happy with the home, and we’re grateful we have a home over our heads, but I do miss swimming in my pool in Southern Utah.
Now that I’m on oxygen 24/7, we probably would have been better off staying at a lower altitude and in a city with cleaner air. But we won’t be able to pack up and move again; we don’t have the energy. So life goes on.
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You Don’t Want or Need Christmas Gifts
Stuff Was Awesome
I used to think that having stuff was awesome Then you get to an age and stage when you realize it doesn’t make you happy. Don’t get me wrong; I love getting up on Christmas morning and watching the grandkids take turns opening presents.
When I was little, I got one present and was thrilled with that one gift. I’m glad my daughters don’t spend a lot of money on gifts for their kids at this time of year. They have never gone into debt to buy Christmas stuff, and I’m so proud of them.
I remember when Mark and I were first married, some of the family members on both sides wanted to give gifts to each other. I thought then, “Oh my gosh, we can hardly afford groceries.”
We were putting Mark through college and he was working two or three jobs. I was babysitting kids and ironing clothes for people just to bring in extra money. I also made bread to sell to my neighbors so we could survive.
In 1970, we didn’t know about or didn’t want to use student loans, grants, or low-income housing to make things work out financially for us. I remember a waiting list to live on campus in student housing.
We scraped every penny and bought our first home for $18,400.00. Back then, we were only making a few hundred dollars a month, so we were not rolling in the dough by any means. We both grew up in homes with limited income coming in, so we know how to be frugal.
I remember thinking I didn’t want Christmas gifts; they put too much pressure on me and my budget That’s how I feel about my kids and their gifts.
I don’t want Christmas Gifts
My point today is that if you are a young couple, single, or even an older couple on a limited income, you don’t have to spend money to make other people or even yourself happy. One of the best gifts my parents ever received from my family was a handwritten letter expressing our love for them and thanking them for the memories we had shared.
I will never forget the look on my dad’s face when he opened his letter. He started crying joyfully and pulled his handkerchief out of his pocket to wipe his tears. My mom also had tears rolling down her face, and her lips trembled as she read her special notes of love.
Here’s the deal: If you want to give a lot of presents and have the means to do so, so be it. But some of us don’t, and I would rather have my daughters pay off their houses or help the grandkids with college expenses than give us or another relative a gift that will end up in the thrift store in a year or two. Does that make sense?
Older People Appreciate Other Kinds of Gifts
We used to live in a neighborhood with a number of people over 70. Some have mentioned that their kids provided the gift of having someone clean their house once a month. They are now in their eighties—what a great gift! The special gift approach doesn’t clutter a house, and who doesn’t love a CLEAN house, right?
It’s hard at first to mention to Aunt Bella that you would rather have a phone call or personal visit from time to time than exchange checks or gift cards.
I would much rather plan an inexpensive day at the park with friends and family (complete without any mobile devices) or roast marshmallows over an open fire pit in the backyard. We can give handmade letters containing memories we have shared. I promise those are the best gifts.
Start New Traditions
The first year you start a NEW tradition of giving less, or nothing physical or tangible, the easier it is on everyone involved. It was very hard the first year I decided I could no longer give Christmas gifts to my daughters, sons-in-law, and grandkids.
Was it uncomfortable, yes? But I’m not willing to use a credit card just to give a gift I can’t afford to give. The funny thing is that my grandchildren didn’t even notice that Mark and I didn’t have a gift for them under the tree, they understand.
I realize some people will say, “I HAVE to give something to my grandkids.” I get it, but I can’t. The funny thing is they didn’t even notice.
They know when they come to visit me I will make them Mickey Mouse pancakes and that’s the highlight of their visit. My oldest grandson is over 30 now and he has to have them because he said I’m the only one that makes them just right.
The Exchange Civic Club
A few years ago, when we attended Mark’s civic club’s Christmas Social, we were asked to bring some socks suitable for teenage youth. The local Children’s Justice Center had expressed the need to provide these to the families they were working with.
Usually, the Exchange Club had a White Elephant gift exchange as part of the social, and although it was fun and generated some laughs, I guess many of those gifts were thrown away or thrifted shortly after the party.
It really gave me a good feeling to know that the small gift of socks we and the others provided would be gratefully received and immediately put to use.
Final Word
Christmas is such a special time of year. We plan company parties, have family gatherings with those we love, and we exchange gifts with all those people who we cherish. There are so many ways to express love this time of year.
If you really think you need to give “something,” consider adding to your family’s food storage or emergency prep inventory. If you have the means, you might also consider taking a trip with family or special friends. What a great opportunity to build memories that will last a lifetime.
As you make your Christmas plans this year, please share the gift of love. Please let your family know that you don’t want or need Christmas gifts. May God Bless this world, Linda
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Linda!! My friend,
What a wonderful post. Trust me when I say I understand about getting rid of stuff. We too have moved a much smaller house and though I still have trinkets that I am emotionally attached to I have made the determination to allow the others to move forward. It actually feels good once you do it. What is with that anyway?? And why do we get attached to things?
The ideas you gave were great. I usually say please just give us a gift card for IHOP so we can go out and eat without guilt…but I like your ideas. For some reason people just hate NOT to give something. Geez, guilt is such a useless emotion.
Well, I am just stopping by to say Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your family. We plan to spend Christmas Eve with my daughter and her family all snuggled up next to the fire with hot chocolate to warm our hands and family fellowship to warm our hearts. The boys are getting big and my Trevor will hit college next year. (whine) But it is all good. eh?
Linda, you are doing a fantastic job with your post and we enjoy reading what you have to say. Keep hitting those computer keys and helping people get prepared. Things seem to look good…I am waiting for the other shoe to drop. Things are changing so we might as well accept it and prepare to stay safe, warm and fed.
Thank you and God bless you and yours.
Love to all,
Vivian
Cincinnati Ohio
Hi Vivian, oh how I love hearing from you, my friend! Staying with family sounds fabulous especially the fireplace, the hot chocolate and the love that will be spread with the snuggles! I make hot cocoa for my granddaughter when I go up north. We will be staying at our daughters for Christmas, I can’t wait to see them! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Hugs! Linda
Linda, how funny is this….. I just had this very conversation with my daughters today. Thank you for reinforcing that I am normal and not alone in my feeling regarding presents. My girls and their families are my world and I want them to know how much I love them every single day of the year; and I know they love me. The kindness and care they show to their aging mother is better then any costly present(s). As I have matured, my wants and needs are to trust in the Lord, good health and happy, healthy family and friends. What a blessing…. greatest present ever! Merry Christmas to you and your family!
p.s. My 14-year old granddaughter loves your prepping wisdom as do I. It is so fun sharing her prepping passion with her.
Hi Katherine, oh I’m glad to hear we both are on the same page! I realize it may be hard for people not to give gifts but I would rather have my kids pay off their house or save the money or whatever. Yes, you and I are normal, let’s go with that!! I love hearing this comment! My family is my world as well and we show love in other ways besides stuff. Merry Christmas to you my friend, here’s to good health and love throughout the world! I love hearing your granddaughter is learning the wisdom of prepping! Merry Christmas to you and your family! Hugs! Linda
Linda, you nailed it. I just had this talk with my in laws. I said I loved them, but we didn’t need or want anything. They said the same thing. Presents for children or for people starting out is one thing, presents for retired people who just want to clean out a life’s worth of stuff is another. Love isn’t shown through presents. Have a wonderful, safe, and prepared holiday!!
Hi Janet, I always get nervous when I write my idea about not needing Christmas gifts, but I do it anyway. I know there must be people like you and me who are thinking the same thing. You are so right love is not shown through presents. Have a great holiday and New Year! Hugs! Linda
I had this idea a little late in the season, but a wonderful gift to someone who lives close, would be to teach them a life skill that they could need. I love to teach people how to make soap, can, garden, cheese making, cook from scratch.
On another note, I found a great idea on Pinterest that my husband and I are going to use. It is don’t buy ANYTHING for a month, and see how you fare. We started this on the 21st (I won’t say that is the best time to start this). My husband then said he would like tacos. I learned how to make tortillas, made sour cream out of cottage cheese and sour cream powder. They were the best tacos we have ever had. I love that I had to get inventive. If times get tough, we will have practice.
Hi Janet, oh this is a good one! I love the idea of teaching life skills. I was just talking to two of my daughters and I told them I don’t worry about them (we live 300-400 miles apart) because they can cook from scratch. They can make bread, etc. I wish we could teach the world how important it is to cook from scratch or garden or can foods we produce. Great comment, glad you could make tacos! I love it! Hugs, Linda
Merry Christmas to you, Mark, and the rest of the family!
Love and Hugs, Mare
Merry Christmas, Mare and now Happy New Year! Hugs to you my friend! Linda
Great post, as usual, Linda. Gifts are not necessary for us. They are not the reason for the season.
Hi Karl, I totally agree, let’s bring back the true meaning of Christmas! Linda
Hi Linda. Great article. In years past, I’ve tried to buy 1 thing for my sister and maybe some smaller items (just to fill up the box) throughout the year. This year, with things the way they are, I’m doing something completely different. I’m sending her homemade goodies, bread, cake, cookies and candy. She always tells me not to send her anything because she knows I really can’t afford it, but I love surprising her. I remember my mother making stuff like that at Christmas when I was a kid and how much people enjoyed getting her gifts. Guess I’m just keeping her tradition going. I always make a tray of goodies to take down to the office here at the park for they guys that work here as a “Thank You” for all they do throughout the year to help me out. Hope you have a Great Holiday season. Bless you for all that you do and the kindness you show and share with others.
Hi Pam, well, your comment really hit me with goosebumps and teary-eyes for a good reason. This time of year my mom (in heaven) always made raisin-filled cookies and other goodies for those that helped her throughout the year. Homemade things and goodies are the best gifts ever. Linda
I am one of those people that like to give gifts at Christmas BUT we don’t spend a lot and I pick up stuff all year long, Coupons and sales RULE!!. Mostly clothing for the grands and we consult with the boys for the “Santa” gift. In our family we do a tradition that my mother in law started back when dad in law didn’t make a lot or didn’t have a job. They draw names. Everybody over 18 gets put in the pot, you draw a name and that’s the person you get a gift for. Limited to NO MORE than $25. The little ones aka the grands get a small gift from their aunts, uncles and grandparents. We draw at Thanksgiving and it’s a riot. The rule is, you can’t get yourself or your spouse. OH and if you get the same person two years in a row, you can’t get that person the third time. That came about because one of my Brother in laws (DH has 4 bros and a sis) and I got each other 2 years in a row, so third year Thanksgiving rolled around he and I just handed each other our lists, Mom then instituted the 2 year in a row rule. Because of the no spouse, no self rule,and 2 yr rule we have a lot of fun with drawing names. One year it took us 17 times to get it straight. Our international guests thoroughly enjoyed themselves that year. Yes, we had my SIL’s fiance, his mother from Hong Kong and three gentlemen from Japan, his co workers that came to learn the American side of the business. They would have been stuck in a hotel that week end, so of course I said have them come. One thing that came out of it is the next month when 3 more people came over for the exchange program, they asked where they could get Thanksgiving feast, the fiance had to explain our holiday to them and why there was no Thanksgiving feast. They were understandably disappointed as the men that went back must have raved about the “feast”. I must have done something good as now my “feast” is internationally known LOL. My table is always open for guests no matter what the occasion. My SIL and I traded the holidays after my in laws passed because she wanted the grands to go to Grandma and Grandpas for Christmas. So now I do Christmas and she does Thanksgiving. My oldest granddaughter (16) is looking forward to when she gets put into the pot, as she said once “then I’m grown up”.
Hi Kathy, oh I LOVE LOVE LOVE hearing family stories and traditions. The 16-year-old, that’s so fun that she can’t wait! Our door is always open as well for the “feast”! Life is so good when we break bread or a meal together! This is awesome! Linda
I think we’ll eventually get to minimal gifts for Christmas now we’re older. I love to hear creative ideas people come up with like homemade candy, baked goods, hand-sewn items, etc. like many give friends & neighbors. My quilt group shares ideas like potholders, pillows, etc. every year.
I spent last winter after Christmas downsizing too as we are getting older. I couldn’t believe how much stuff I had that was child related from raising a family that is now passed on to my children! I had 2 huge boxes of Halloween costumes alone! But I still have plenty as I’m not dead yet and still have things I enjoy using (like lots of dish sets!). But I’ve donated, sold, tossed, or gave to my kids all the excess for where I’m in life now. It feels good to actually have some empty shelves in the bookcases. So I totally understand not wanting a lot of things as gifts. I notice a lot of people are giving “experiences” like tickets to a play, museum, or activity. That’s especially nice when it’s done together!
I love Christmas but also wasn’t raised with excessive presents in a similar time period as you Linda. My biggest problem is a son-in-law whose love language is gifts. His mother tried to make up for a missing father with presents and still gives very expensive gifts although it’s taking from money she really needs now she’s older. There is no changing that. I am not going to compete with the other grandma who spends about $300 per grandchild (she just has 3 so far).
I have lowered the amount I’m spending on everyone this year. I buy grandchildren’s gifts (toys) for about $20-$25 throughout the year when I see a good deal and that has really helped with the supply problems this year. When they are too big for toys, there are more grandchildren, and we are even older and on a retirement income then things will have to change again as I can’t see being able to afford or do all that shopping.
My husband is very handy (which my son-in-laws are not) so we have offered to repair something for them including parts if they’re not too expensive. They seem delighted with that idea and are deciding what to have us do.
I have a friend who gives grandkids books for around $10 and that seems like a good plan too. I’d love to hear ideas of what other people do who don’t want to quit gifts entirely.
Hi Kay, I agree, the little ones need a gift. Our youngest grandchild has now 15 so we miss the little ones running around. I love the “fix” idea as a gift. My husband tried so hard to be a fix-it person but, he’s not like our son-in-law. He literally can fix anything. It’s such a blessing to my daughter and her budget. I love trading skills, the best gift ever. The book idea is awesome as well. We are teaching the gift of reading. I think even when I was working I would never give a $300.00 gift, it’s just me. I love the experiences together idea. We all need ideas. Great comment, Kay! Linda
How about if you take this original “You Don’t Want or Need Christmas Gifts” and change it to “…anniversary gifts” or “…birthday gifts” the rest of the year, or something like that?
I remember a couple of years ago when we were planning on throwing a party for our 30th anniversary. We didn’t want any gifts, but people kept asking us about it. So, let me explain what we did. Our church supports some kids who lived in a garbage dump in Kenya, S Africa. Or rather I should say many kids in that garbage dump. Over several years, our church has raised enough money to bring approx 75 of those kids out of that dump & into boarding schools, educated them, and fed & clothed them, all to improve their young, precious lives. Many of my fellow church attendees have sponsored at least one child, and many have sponsored more than one, by contributing a flat amount of money each month per child. The year of our party a way was being researched on how to provide clean drinking water for each child & their family through the use of individual water filtration systems, in addition to the gigantic water tanks already built in villages to make clean drinking water available for everyone in that particular village. The smaller filtration system was something hand-held & new. So that’s what we zeroed in on purchasing since they were expensive for just one small system like that. I think we ended up with enough donations-instead-of-gifts to purchase several. Other couples/groups copied our idea & did the same thing & the whole project became an outstanding success!
So once again some of my favorite words “where there’s a will, there’s a way” came to fruition. I hope this post sparks some imaginations out there.
Hi Janet, Wow, wow, wow! I LOVE LOVE LOVE this idea. A few years ago it was our 50th wedding anniversary, and it didn’t seem right to celebrate when our whole world/Country was in chaos. Of course, the pandemic didn’t help either. We opted to go to dinner, not expensive, but simple. I would have loved to have done your project. Best idea ever! Thank you for sharing, Linda
Our budget was tight, but we did our best to keep the magic of Christmas alive. We shopped for all gift needs year round. You would be amazed at all the “like new” clothes, books and toys we got from garage sales. Our youngest even got a brand new bike that the neighbor of a friend was getting rid of. Even now, I found 4 brand new toiletries travel cases complete with tags, for $1. New Yankee Candles for $1-$2 each.We live near Fisher-Price, so we often got good quality toys at clearance prices…….many that our grandchildren play with now. We never did the excess. New pajamas for Christmas Eve. Good books were a must. Clothes the kids needed.
To “celebrate ” with friends and neighbors without the pressure of gifts, we did a Christmas in July party. I would freeze snowballs in the winter for the party. We would put up an artificial tree in the yard, and decorate with Styrofoam peanut for snow. Everyone brought their favorite Christmas cookies and candy.
Hi Chris, oh that would be awesome to live by a Fisher-Price store to watch for clearance items. I remember watching garage sales for my girls for their well-made toys. Garage sales and finding items at rock-bottom sales rocks! Life is good when we can enjoy holidays without spending a lot. I LOVE LOVE LOVE the Christmas in July party! Great comment, Linda
Dear Linda,
A number of years ago when there were many of us gathered, my mom simply made an outline of a Christmas tree using silver garland, hung on the wall with cards and a few balls. Instead of gifts we had a talent show and a book exchange. My sis and I did a short play called Rich Woman, Poor Woman with only a scarf for a prop and likely just one practice in the guest bedroom. My mom and I played a duet on harp and flute and there were hilarious skits, singing, and just a general good time.
Now days, our family has changed, leaving just a few of us and our happy memories. However, my daughter
started a new tradition, that of carrying blankets, jackets and socks in her car to be given away when we see the need, often accompanied by something hot to eat.
This year again, both of our vehicles will be full of emergency clothing and extra food for the teenaged grandkids to give to the homeless in our community…that just feels right to us.
As to the talent show? Oh, I would love to do that again combined with sing-alongs at the piano. That may or may not happen, but we will be singing carols at the doors of the lonely or elderly, taking a homegrown plant or cookies to share. I love this season of bringing the Spirit while serving others.
With love from S. Oregon,
Shirley
Hi Shirley, oh I love these sweet family memories, things we never forget. The holidays really are about giving, sharing, and serving others. It also teaches our kids and grandkids what others live without. Mark belongs to a Civic club and they are always asking for good socks to be given to the homeless shelters. We also make up gallon bags with toiletries that the shelter can use for families. It really does make you take a step back and be thankful for what WE have. Love from Utah, Linda
Linda,
We’ve done that whole “please don’t send us any gifts” thing for mre than a decade now. We still send them gifts, but mostly just to our grandchildren as our kids have told us they don’t want anything either. The last two years I’ve sent the grandkids Amazon gift cards so they can get what they want. Though we offered both 16 year olds cars this year. Oddly enough they turned them down. Beats me. When I was that age I worked all summer to buy my first old, used car, and I would have loved to have one given to me.
Hi Ray, oh wow, I bought my first car, $150.00. I was 16 years old and it was a 1951 Chevy, oh the memories. I borrowed the money from my grandparents, I had saved $75.00 (half of it) boy those were the days. Kids love Amazon cards! No one ever offered me a car as a gift, wow, and they didn’t want it. LOL! Life is good, Linda
Apparently our Grandson has been over protected by our daughter, I think because he had health problems as an infant. He’s timid, so much so he hasn’t learned to drive yet. I foresee this being a real problem in his later life. Shame because he’s really bright.
Our Granddaughter may never have received our offer since our son doesn’t check his emails.
We literally bought two vehicles off my wife’s Uncle’s estate to give to them. Now we have 4 vehicles (since we already had two) for the two of us. Oh, well, if the kids don’t want them we’ll sell them. At least used car prices are through the roof.
Hi Ray, oh my gosh, FREE cars when we learned to drive, that would have been so awesome. I had a few grandkids (we have 17) that were chomping at the bit to get their driver’s license while others didn’t seem to care when they got them. They are all different. The price of those “used” cars is through the roof indeed right now. I’m still hanging onto our only car, a 2009 Honda CRV. We checked to see if we could have some interior items repaired because the car works great. When in our lifetime did cars (other than collectibles) go UP in value! LOL! It’s crazy! Linda
Linda,
I think a lot of the increase in used car value comes from the current shortages of new vehicles together with the insane prices of new cars. Our main car is a 1996 Lexus LS 400 we bought used for $5800 in 2011. It’s the only car Jane can ride in comfortably and it gets 26 mpg on the highway. We also have an old 1999 E250 cargo van I used when I was building houses and doing fix and flips.
The ones we were giving away were a 2014 Hyundai Sonata and a 1984 Dodge Raider 4×4 (with a new engine in it).
Gotta say, I’m amazed at them turning them down. I mean, even if they didn’t want to drive them they could sell them.
Hi Ray, we were hoping to buy a new car but the timing isn’t right yet. Plus, this Honda CRV works! LOL! Wow, those are nice cars, they really are missing out on some good rides! Life is so good! Linda
Linda,
In 2011 my wife totaled our Subaru Legacy in a freeway accident in Las Vegas. When I started looking for a replacement car a friend who was a car guy told me to forget shopping for two year old used cars and look for an old LS400–anything from 1992-1999. I followed his advice and it was excellent advice. That old Lexus is still in excellent shape. When I got it I replaced all the fluids with AMSOIL products, so no more wear on the engine or tranny will occur. It only had 103,000 miles on it when we got it so that superb engine was barely broken in. To this day it has never used a drop of oil. That’s quality craftsmanship. One of the best deals I’ve ever made.
Hi Ray, wow, glad you’re wife is okay after the car accident. That was awesome advice!! I love hearing about a good car that isn’t brand new. I need to do AMSOIL products, it won’t be Mark, it will have to be me. Thanks for the heads up. Linda
My love language is gifting! I love love love making/buying gifts for people. I do enjoy receiving gifts but that is not what I enjoy the most!
My daughter asked me a couple of weeks ago what I wanted for Christmas. I told her that I didn’t need nor want anything. I am at that stage where if I need something, I get it. Anyway, I told her that she shouldn’t spend money on me!! She said that was NOT appropriate. So I suggested a grocery store gift card or a gift card to one of the small businesses in town (used bookstore, coffee shop, a cafe that serves only breakfast/lunch) or even the Ace Hardware! But I put the emphasis on the grocery store gift card!
Something that happened the other night at a birthday celebration: My daughter has 5 children and the older kids really want to give/make gifts for the other kids. So, mom and dad suggested the kids draw names instead of having to give 4 gifts, they only have to give one! This is a Secret Santa thing (even though Santa has never been a part of their Christmas celebration) and the kids are so excited about this. It lowers the stress on mom and dad and raises the excitement with the kids. The kids also want to give gifts to mom and dad as well as grandma but I suggested to them that the 4 of them (just counting the 4 older kids, not the baby) pool their funds and get one gift for me if they decided to give me something.
Hi Leanne, oh I love homemade gifts! I remember doing this years ago when the grandkids were younger. Now we have 17 and the youngest one is 15. We do have two new great grandkids which is fun all over again! LOL! Thanks goodness for FaceTime on phones. Everyone is spread out all over the US. I miss the days when we all lived within 30 minutes. But life changes. I love your daughters idea of Secret Santa trading. Its funny you mentioned grocery gift card. My dogs groomer I picked up a grocery store gift card for her because she is so patient with my dog. I’m just practical, groceries are so expensive. I’m so glad you moved closer to your daughter and her family. What a blessing. Linda
Linda~
I am a long way off from having great-grandchildren!! My oldest grandchild is 13 and my youngest is not quite 2!! It has been so fun watching my grands growing! I simply cannot imagine only seeing them once a year!! Some weeks I see them 2-3 times (since I don’t live out on the farm!!!).
HI Leanne, you are so lucky and blessed beyond words. When our grands were younger we got together all the time because they all lived in the Salt Lake Valley and Davis County. Now we are lucky to see them once a year. This year we had three weddings. Last year one wedding. We’re growing by leaps and bounds. Life is good, Linda
Thanks for this post. I remember making hand made ornaments for a gift when $$ was tight. Something simple from felt, fabric or yarn that cost next to nothing but made a nice keepsake. We stopped exchanging gifts a long time ago. The best gift I ever received was time. Time spent with my grandparents, parents, and siblings. That’s a gift I am so grateful for & will never exchange! ❤️ A blessed Christmas to you and your family!
Hi Lori, oh your comment melts my heart! I love it! i like your idea of time, that is so important for memories! I LOVE your comment! Linda
For those who do not want gifts this year… I have a suggestion… There are families in Tents in Western North Carolina and in East Tennessee that are displaced due to Hurricane Helene. There are several ways we can help. Deep River Farm has links on his you tube site, and Appalachian Homestead with Patera has some..( there is a health care clinic that is doing christmas gifts- and need cash to complete purchases-they don’t have room to recieve any more things.-… for almost 90 children, and another one doing gifts for another 100+ children..)….there is an amazon gift list associated with one, and needs can be sent… they are in need of 2 burner propane stoves and extra 20 # propane tanks. They have ability to get them filled at no cost.. but need for exchange so no one is without. The temps are to be in the single digits this week and there is an ice storm forecast. There has already been a 18 month old child die from exposure. Their only help is from the public.. These people have been vetted. needs are urgent.
Hi Denise, this is the best idea EVER! Thank you, we all know they need so many things they need. I know some of my readers have donated money and goods to many of the groups who are trustworthy. Thank you so much for reminding all of us who really needs money and items ASAP! Hugs, Linda
Sometimes a gift is as simple as a friend sending a text to see how we are doing. I believe the best “present ” is your “presence” in our lives
Hi Chris, I LOVE LOVE LOVE your comment! Nailed it! Great comment! It’s so true! Linda